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Here are some ways to build your child’s confidence and self-esteem.
- Many children learn from their parents the behavior and modes of thinking necessary for good confidence and self-esteem. This is a form of parental modeling, where the child ‘models’ after the parent. It’s fairly simple. As a parent, if you project high levels of confidence and good levels of self-esteem then chances are your child will pick up these traits.
- Play time is one of the most important ways a child builds his or her confidence and self-esteem. It not only provides the child with opportunities to learn and build intellectual confidence, it allows he or she to build self-esteem so that socializing with other children in a play environment is a pleasurable experience. Allow your child to initiate the play and always remain positive and encouraging.
- Let your child know that he or she is special. This can be done a number of ways. For example, simply addressing your child by their name lets him or her know that they are an individual and special person. You can organize special days and outings involving something that he or she likes. You could visit a museum, or go roller skating, or even just have a lovely picnic in a park. This will let your child know that his or her interests and skills are valued by you.
Letting your child know in the ways above, and in many other way, that his or her confidence and self-esteem are important to you will pave the way for their success in future life.
